Well, you could find a younger guy who went through a 2004 Britney Spears-style wedding, but that would just be weird.There’s also the possibility of meeting a guy who got married as a child (18-25), but got divorced by 30.Can you imagine what a quiet apartment with no roommates sounds like? Aside from the whole divorce thing, he’s likely to have his life together (and if he doesn’t, run).He probably has a good job, since odds are, he’s been there a while. Your life may be in a constant state of crazy and your mind may usually run in 12 different directions, but his stability is refreshing and helps to keep you balanced amidst the chaos of your world.Wanting to be ready to move on post-divorce is different than actually being ready.The difference between the two is based on a number of individualized factors. ), and his capacity to own and reflect on what happened.With the higher likelihood that he has children to support and spend time with or a time-consuming job, his other obligations give you time for yourself.
Post-divorce is a time to separate from the role of spouse, redefine who you are, and accept a new identity and lifestyle.Consider his emotional availability, the circumstances of his marriage and divorce (Was it amicable? Listen closely as he shares his past with you to better gauge where he is emotionally and if he has truly moved on and is ready to be a partner to you.Rather than focusing on the the length of time he has been divorced, you’ll get much better information by tuning into what he is saying and how it makes you feel.Let’s give him the benefit of the doubt and say he learned from that mistake, but he’s still not in the category of divorced guys we’re talking about here.
So, yes, the divorced guy you should date is oldbut that’s actually one of his finer qualities — it means that he's more likely a man.
Regardless of who initiated the divorce, emotions may weigh heavy and feel painful while grieving occurs.